Hi @faecon,
Welcome to the community support forums !!
If your password is changing without your conscious then this is really very alarming as someone else might have access to your server and can do harm it. (please consult a server administrator to protect it).
Regarding the question of resetting passwords. I recently worked on a similar case and you can view this post as the user provided a very nice alternative method to reset passwords via the Database.
Let us know if this helps.