Configure sqlite3 data source to load extension

Is there a way to configure sqlite3 data source to load an extension?
Standard load extension command select load_extension(‘./define’); throws error:“SQL logic error: not authorized (1)”

did you configure things on sqllite side

https://www.sqlite.org/c3ref/load_extension.html

A standalone instance of sqlite3 is working fine, as shown below

sqlite> select load_extension('./pivotvtab');

sqlite> create virtual table v_sales using pivot_vtab (
(x1...>   (select distinct product from sales where product in ("alpha", "beta")),
(x1...>   (select distinct year, year from sales),
(x1...>   (select sum(income) from sales where product = ?1 and year = ?2)
(x1...> );
sqlite>
sqlite> select * from v_sales;
alpha|100.0|120.0|130.0|140.0
beta|10.0|20.0|40.0|80.0
sqlite>

when load_extension is used in grafana (with sqlite plugin) it throws error.

rawQueryText:"select load_extension('./pivotvtab.dll');"
....
....
error:"**SQL logic error: not authorized (1)**"

where is the db file in relation to grafana
what os is grafana on, and what folder

db file is in GrafanaLabs\grafana\data folder on windows.
extension file (.dll) is also placed in same same folder and have tried placing almost all folder I may possibly think about.

It appears that sqlite plugin “frser-sqlite-datasource” is configured not to allow extension. Is there any mechanism to tweak the plugin to allow loading extension.

best to contact author of plugin on github